Partnership, Self-Acceptance, Healing

Look at the status of the partnerships in your life. Are they as strong and healthy as you would like? As they satisfying to you on a personal level? Are they stimulating you to increase your spiritual growth? Are they creating a synergy that is stimulating you to create incredible projects that will have a tremendous beneficial impact on the enlightenment of the world? Chances are that not all of these things are true. If your relationships are lacking in adding this kind of quality in your life then it is certainly time to examine them. Of course, the first step in examining a relationship is not to look at the strengths and weaknesses of the other person, but rather to look at your own character. Most people have a difficult time in relationships because they lack self-acceptance. If you cannot honestly say that you love yourself and accept that you are a worthwhile human being who is deserving of love, then you will have a difficult time accepting others into any sort of intimate relationship. Take a long look at your relationship with yourself. How much of it is based upon guilt originating from conditioning from earlier years? How much time have you spent actually looking at your character and determining which aspects are helping you move toward the types of relationships you are seeking and which are holding you back? Once you begin to accept yourself while focusing on developing those qualities that will attract and inspire the types of people you want to associate with then you will begin to miraculously see that your relationships become healed without you having to try to “change” the other person.